Interview - SammiStarfish

Interview with SammiStarfish

Date: 05-03-2021

• Hi Sammi we are excited to have this interview with you and get to know you a little more. You joined the BikiniFanatics community in March 2020, what has been your best BF experience since you joined us?

  Definitely the community. I joined BF just as Covid 19 was becoming a global concern and lockdowns followed shortly after.  I made an excellent friend in Donna (FunwithD) on here and we have kept in touch this whole time.  It has been so nice being able to stay connected with people in the midst of social distancing. I have always enjoyed posting nudes online and reading about my fans' reactions, but BF is so different because we are a tight knit circle. It's an experience that I haven't seen on other sites.  We don't see new girls as competition, we see them as new friends. It's an attitude that exists only here on BF. And that's really why I'm still here.

• How long have you been a bikini fanatic? How did you get started in it?

  My fascination with bikinis started with lingerie. Ever since I moved out on my own at 18 years old I have loved feeling sexy. Sometimes I would put on lingerie all by myself just to see how it looked. And I would imagine the reaction from the man I was with if he were to see me. This fetish grew and grew and expanded into risky beach trips in skimpy bikinis of course. I love seeing guys hide behind their sunglasses pretending they aren't looking. But of course we all know where those eyes are really pointed don't we?

  
  

  

• Do you have more lifestyle fetishes? For example, high heels, latex, lingerie, foot fetishes or something like this?

  Where do I even begin when listing my fetishes? How much time to I have haha? I love all things sexy. It can be heels, lingerie, pantyhose, anything. For me it's not so much the outfit as much as it is the man's reaction. So I guess you could say that I have a fetish for male lust. That look they get in their eye when they pick you up and fuck you up against the wall because they can't wait long enough to make it to the bedroom. That strength and animal like instinct that men have drives me absolutely crazy. And that is my real fetish. All of the outfits and trips are all just my attempts and seeing that look in his eyes!

• What is your favorite thing about being a bikini fanatic?

  For me it's always been about showing off. So many of us girls work so hard at the gym and part of that is so that we can be stronger and faster. But if we are really being honest with ourselves one of the biggest motivators is having that beach body that we've always wanted. For me fitness has been my lifestyle since I was a teenager. And BikiniFanatics has given me a platform to show off all that work without having to leave my house. I don't live close to any beaches and there aren't many places that I am allowed to let loose and show my body. BikiniFanatics has filled that void. And while it's obviously more fun to do this on a beach, showing off here has been amazingly rewarding.

  
  

  

• According to your hot uploads on BF, we noticed you do love to shoot in public where passersby can watch. How does that make you feel?

  If we are going to go back to my long list of fetishes then I have to admit that public flashing is my favorite kink. And it's not that I want to get caught either. Quite the opposite honestly. I have been caught before and it is always super embarrassing. But that adrenaline rush that I get from knowing that I could be caught gets my juices flowing every time. Anybody can bend over in a short skirt in the living room, but what fun is that? It's ten times more exciting when you do it at a car wash or a shopping mall lol.

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• Have shooting content and uploading this to the public changed your perspective in regards to body confidence and did it make you feel more confident since?

  Shooting content has completely changed how I see myself. My body naturally likes to put all of my fat on my upper thighs and butt. And even though I spend hours in the gym and dedicate myself to fitness dieting I still have cellulite and "imperfections". But so many men have told me that those things that I disliked about my body are actually their favorite part. We women are so hard on ourselves and on each other. Men are much more accepting of our bodies and forgiving of those imperfections. In fact, the very thing we hate about our bodies is the very thing that men love so much. It is what makes us feminine. And femininity is just plain sexy.

  
  

  

• How many bikinis do you have?

  I probably have around 20 bikinis. My collection is growing. I look at a lot of the bikinis your girls are rocking and I think wow I need to step up my game haha.

• What is your ‘biggest’ bikini and what is your smallest bikini? Or as we call it, nano bikini? Please link us to the gallery you wearing it.

  My biggest bikini is a yellow polka dot bikini as seen in "Polka Dot Derriere." My smallest is actually a BF bikini that I traded my points here for. You can see for yourself in my gallery "My First BF Bikini." I'm still working up the courage to wear the latter in public. I live in kind of a prudish area of the country so it's difficult to get away with showing that much skin lol.

• What's your favorite BF gallery so far and why? Link us!

  I would love to link you guys to one of my galleries and call it my favorite but that would be a lie.  My favorite gallery so far is "Wicked Reflections" from WickedBum. I am a sucker for fit gym girls and she fills out those shorts just the way a lady is supposed to. I can imagine her being my workout partner at the gym while we wear matching shorts together.  I'll bet we would have a few eyes pointed at us what do you think? And then maybe afterward we'd do something else together ;)

• What makes a man sexy? What traits do you admire in a man?

  100% their masculinity. Men are not beautiful. They were not made to be looked at. They were made to work and to fight. It is their strength and aggression that makes them sexy to me. Looking at a man posing nude on a bed does very little for me. But seeing a fit topless guy in a pair of tight jeans chopping down a tree with an axe makes me weak in the knees. When I shake a man's hand I don't want to feel soft lotion hands. I want to feel thick, strong, calloused skin.

  
  

  

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• What makes a woman sexy? What traits do you admire in a woman?

  I don't know how else to say it other than to say that it is her femininity. Women are absolutely beautiful works of art. We are soft and silky to the touch. I have been bisexual for as long as I can remember, but I was not with my first woman in the bedroom until my early thirties. And I was amazed at how soft she was. It was like snuggling with a silk pillow. Men have rough skin and big hard arms. But a woman is just so soft and I can see why men love it so much. I still prefer men, but when I am attracted to a woman it is to her femininity. I am looking to her beauty and vulnerability. It is absolutely amazing. Men have asked me often who is the dominant one when I am with another female. And the answer is neither. A woman needs neither dominate nor submit to another woman. We simply exist sexually with each other. It is very different and very wonderful.

• We know you are an animal lover. Are you a dog or cat person or both?

  I am definitely a dog person. She is a South African Mastiff as many people have actually asked her breed. I do have a cat as well, but I don't love her as much haha. Cats are amazing athletes and apex predators, but you just can't beat the loyalty of the k9. And of course she is my protector when my husband is away. Always by my side!

• What do you do for a living?

  I actually create adult content full time now. So this is actually my living now. But before this I was an account manager for an integrated supplier. Nothing all that fascinating. I have a degree in account acquisition and had an amazing career. But I left all of that because I just love the freedom of working for myself and doing what I love.

  
  

  

• How often do you travel during the year?

  I have not actually been able to travel for leisure in years. I have 4 kids of my own and 3 step children so we can't even fit all 9 of us in a minivan. And there aren't many people, none that I have found anyway, who are interested in babysitting 7 kids while we travel around haha. The sacrifices of having such a large family are more than worth enduring for the rewards though. I am planning a cross country road trip in an RV this summer though and I am so excited for it. It is literally years and years overdue.

• What are your hobbies and interests?

  Everybody who follows me knows I am really into Crossfit and Olympic Lifting. But many people are surprised to learn that I am a fanatic for all things wilderness. I am a hunter, shooter, hiker, survivalist, and wannabe homesteader. I am saving up money to buy secluded land in Montana to live a simpler off grid homesteading kind of lifestyle. I have taken classes on brain tanning hides, primitive fire starting, farming, composting, and many others. I'm currently looking at land in Montana that is accessible by 4-wheeler only in the summer time and snowmobile only in the winter time. Miles and miles from the nearest road. Sharing land with wolves and grizzly bears is a dangerous adventure that I have dreamed about for a long time. And I'm finally close to making it a reality with my husband by my side.

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• What kind of music do you like?

  I am a country girl through and through. And my music choices are no exception lol. Definitely country music. But I prefer the older stuff like George Straight. The new country music is a little too "rock" for me.

  
  

  

• What are your bikini sizes?

  I'm an American size medium. Which is probably an XL in European sizes haha. But my dress size is 6. I am short at only 5'2" (157 cm). But I'm pretty heavy for my height usually weighing between 150 and 160 pounds (68kg - 73kg).

• What are your favorite holiday destinations?

  I actually grew up in a Jehovah's Witnesses family. And JW's do not celebrate Christmas or birthdays or any holidays for that matter. So I don't have any fond childhood memories of Christmas vacations like many of you. But my favorite destinations are definitely in the secluded mountain ranges. It doesn't really matter where as long as it is secluded and beautiful. To me that is my escape and my happy place.

• Do you have a boyfriend or are you married? How long are you together/married? And have you had many?

  I am married. He is actually my third marriage. And my only sister is also very happily married for her third time as well. So I think that the whole "third time's a charm" cliché runs in the family haha. We have been married for almost three years. He actually proposed to me after only three months of dating. We both had the same life goals and our sex life was amazing. We are literally best friends so what seemed like rushing in to most of our family and friends actually seemed like we had been waiting 20 years to meet each other in our own eyes. And we are very excited to see where life takes us.

• Did you date a lot in high school?

  I actually dated the same guy all through high school. So I did go on a lot of dates, but didn't do much dating. We parted ways afterward, but I am still fond of those old memories with him.

  
  

  

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• We know about your active sport lifestyle. For those who have no idea, what do you do and how often do you train?

  I actually coach Crossfit and Olympic Lifting on the side. So my background is definitely in Crossfit. I've competed in a ton of competitions in both Olympic Lifting and Crossfit. But for the last 2 years or so I have been more involved in hypertrophic weight lifting. Which is more on the bodybuilder style of lifting. I lift in very high volume (meaning number of sets being high) and aim for failure at around the tenth repetition. There is a reason bodybuilders train that way. And there is a reason they are bigger than Crossfitters (and no it's not steroids, those exist in both sports). So when I decided I wanted to get bigger muscles I transitioned into that style of lifting. Although I still think crossfit is the best way to get fit in the most well rounded way. As far as how often I typically train 5 days/week if I'm bodybuilding, and I train 6 days/week if I'm Crossfitting.  But I think the real miss that people fail to realize is that fat loss is not done in the gym, it's done in the kitchen. And for those of you who struggle to put on muscle, if you're not in a calorie surplus, you're not going to be building anything. So for me I go through phases of weight gain and weight loss. When I gain 10 pounds a little more than half of it is muscle. And when I lose ten pounds a little less than half of it is muscle. So over time you put on more and more muscle without getting fat. Otherwise you'll end up with that powerlifter look. They don't have weight limits so they don't care how fat they get haha.

• What do you like sexually? What gets you wet?

  I am definitely turned on the most by raw lust and power. When a man can no longer control himself and he just picks me up and fucks me up against the wall. And he is so strong that I am just like a fuck doll to him, helpless to stop him. Although I definitely would not want to stop him haha. That is the kind of sex life that I adore.

• What is your ultimate sexual fantasy?

  I have had the same impossible fantasy for about 20 years now haha. And that is to travel back in time and get gang fucked by Roman Gladiators in the Colosseum just before they all fight to the death. The strength and mental toughness of those men is something that has fascinated me all of my life. And I can only imagine how they would fuck me knowing it might be the last fuck they ever enjoy.

  
  

  

• Thank you so much for your time, I hope you enjoyed answering them. We do have one last questions though: What can we expect from you in the upcoming months? Thank you again and thank you for being #IamBikiniFanatic!

  Excellent question! Many of my current galleries have been filmed in hotels and indoor settings because of my difficult family situation and lack of beach access. But an investment that I have recently made has been in purchasing 13 acres of secluded land about 20 minutes drive from my house. And I plan to turn it into an epic outdoor studio for all of my naughty fantasies. So I have really big plans for all kinds of creative outdoor content. I'm even planning to build some wooden medieval stocks for some kinky outdoor bikini bondage. And if any of you fans have anything that you fantasize about, don't hesitate to send me a DM.

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